Ever wonder how you actually find other Non-monogamous people? This post goes into some of the best tried and true methods to find like minded non-monogamous individuals. So whether you are looking to Swing, Date, or more, this piece has tips for where the non-monogamous gather.
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Are you ready to learn the history of love and improve your dating game or current understanding the evolution of attraction
This book began as a beautiful journey through historical literature in all things love, including dandies throughout our past and the impact they had on relationships and women. Then it shifts to the erotics of love, and delving into our love customs. It’s a beautiful and inspirational journey that I highly recommend. It definitely has its base in science, but is portrayed in an elegant way, surprising you at the end about how much you have learned in the process.
Because of the rhythmic nature of the book I rate this an easy read for those well versed in reading poetry, and a moderate read for those who are not (which is the group I fall into). So pick up your copy today for some before bed reading or perhaps in a relaxing bubble bath!
Stay tuned for the next review geared to help you date, love and succeed in relationships!
In any solid relationship, the key foundation is excellent communication. But there is one area that I see couples struggle with time and time again, and that is when it comes to talking about money and financial matters. The statistics around divorce rates clearly indicate that money is the number one cause, with infidelity a very close second. Why is this so often the case? Quite simply, we as a society are very poor at discussing our financial situations with anyone, including our spouses.
This guest post, perfectly sums up the angst and questioning when it comes to money and relationships. Please note that the link contains images that are NSFW (Not safe for work).
Money and Relationships (NSFW)
So if you, or anyone you know are suffering from the relationship burden of finances, please know that you are not alone. Help is available. We are all in this together and need to end the stigma around talking about our finances.
This phrase has become so commonplace that I don’t think we even give it a second thought. If a person has been cheated on, we use it to make them feel better. If a person admits to cheating, it becomes the rationalization to never forgive, become distrustful and often times sever the relationship. But is that really fair? Has this term become such a cliche that we have forgotten that every single relationship and circumstance has its own story and more than that, 2 sides?
Let’s consider the young, dumb, horny teenager who cheated on their first partner when drunk. Are they forever now burdened with the title of a cheater because they made a juvenile mistake? Are they allowed to grow, develop and mature from the experience and possibly move on? Or is it like the bad tattoo that must follow them forever?
What about women who after birthing 4 beautiful children has put on weight and her partner no longer finds her attractive? Is she to be labelled a cheater for life when she in desperation found comfort from a co-worker that one time? The one indiscretion that allowed her to go and face her family with a smile on her face for the first time in a decade? She didn’t sign up for celibacy and at the same time does not want to destroy her family. And she vows it will never happen again. Do we believe her? Or is she doomed to suffer and have her marriage crumble beneath her?
The thing is, labeling someone a cheater is never so clear cut as we want it to be. If you have ever been cheated on, or have cheated in the past and you are having troubles moving on, I can help you move past the indiscretion and learn how to love yourself and others again. It’s time to find forgiveness and become whole again.
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