As a dating and relationship coach there is one quintessential book that every one of my male clients has heard of or read themselves, and that is The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists by Neil Strauss. And after reading the book, I can absolutely see why.
This phrase has become so commonplace that I don't think we even give it a second thought. If a person has been cheated on, we use it to make them feel better.
When you were last heartbroken, what was the first thing that you did? Most likely you went to your best friend for consolation, venting and a drink.
Woman rarely make the first move other than a timid like. This may be why the pool of users on Bumble is so low.