Ever wonder how you actually find other Non-monogamous people? This post goes into some of the best tried and true methods to find like minded non-monogamous individuals. So whether you are looking to Swing, Date, or more, this piece has tips for where the non-monogamous gather.
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This was one of the most surprisingly informative reads of my summer (click on the link to purchase)! Not only was this book a simple and fun read, filled with humor and clever stories, it was incredibly well researched and study supported. Written by a biologist, Jena Pincott’s writing style allows you to read from cover to cover, or just scan through and read the parts of interest to you.
And what may you find in that? Well, if you’re single, it will explain the biological triggers for attraction from auditory, to oral, and of course visual. If your in a relationship, it helps explain why your partner is the one. Both by covering the clever ways our bodies choose who to procreate with, and the hormones and perhaps even pheromones that are present when selecting our forever mate.
But more than that, it is filled with tips and tricks to present yourself in the best possible light for attraction. And seriously, who doesn’t need that from time to time, right?
A highly entertaining and informative read that I would highly recommend you pick up today (and there is a handy image to purchase from amazon right at the top of the page!). So have fun learning about yourself, your prospects and even your partner if that applies to you, on a biological level.
Stay tuned for the next book review coming soon…
Whereby the game is simply to be noticed by any means necessary! Have you ever opened a message with “hey” or “how are you?”. What about sending a funny meme online to a public forum just to get some conversation going? Have you ever matched with someone, only to play the endless waiting game, hoping the person on the other end will message first? How’s that working out for you?
Chances are it’s not, and that you’re still single. And here’s why. Online dating is saturated with people who don’t know how to use it. The singles pool is filled with lonely individuals who are so frustrated that any attention is good attention, even if it isn’t (such as the dick pictures). We become so frustrated that we are single we resort to the playground mentality of being thankful for any human interaction even if it entails being yelled at or blocked. It doesn’t make a lot of sense when you think about it, but misery, depression and loneliness does some pretty weird things to our psyche.
Online dating if done correctly can be an amazing opportunity to meet people. I met my partner on Plenty of Fish nearly 8 years ago. And I have countless friends who are married and starting families all thanks to online dating. And do you know what they all had in common? They weren’t on there just to get attention. They were there with intent and purpose. Meaning, they thought about their messages before sending. They envisioned the reaction they would get, and if it didn’t work (which is never does the first few times), they would re-evaluate, and try something new. By putting the scientific method of hypothesis, experimenting, checking your results and then rinse and repeat until you get it right, many of my nearest and dearest are happily in love.
So stop playing games online. Think before you type something. Imagine the response you want to get, and dating with purpose and intent.
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